10 pick up lines

Do you want to know what the best pick up lines are? Well, if you’ve done the special quiz, you already know how to make any line work for you… But speaking from a general perspective, different lines work for different people. Overall however, I’ve found some lines that do stand out as being universally better.

You see I’ve for years studied the subject of approaching women, and starting conversations. I have tried thousands of ways to do it and have worked and socialized with hundreds of guys who did the same. At the end, out of all that experience, I can come up with this list, as as universal “top 10″ list of sorts. These are not in any order, and are equally valuable.

1) Hi Guys, How Ya Doing?

In order to make this one work, you have to actually mean it. It has to be something that’ second nature to you, and not something you do, to pick up women. You want to invest some time in becoming the “chit-chat guy”. Befriend everyone from the fast-food vendor to the newspaper guy and the store clerk. Ask everyone “How’s it going”. Over time, it’ll become second nature, and people will recognize you wherever you go. I do this, and now, I get favors, discounts and gifts everywhere I go. Just by asking “How’s it going” to everyone in my way. If you do this long enough, you will become a natural at it, and it will work with women. If you’re asocial, and rarely ask this question of half-strangers, then it won’t work for you.

2) I’ve seen you around [campus], and I thought it was time to introduce myself, Hi, I’m Bob

This one is best for a girl you’ve seen around a few times, and you’ve noticed that “thing”. You’ve noticed her noticing you, and you’ve noticed her. Its this girl you keep noticing around the campus, neighbourhood, or whatever… And she’s always noticing you back. This is when its ok to pull this one off.

3) I just had to [compliment] before I leave!

This is a “training wheels” type of a line. If you’re too shy to approach women or do the other lines, this one is perfect for you. The way you do this one, is that if you’re in a club or something, you do this while leaving the place. The idea is to almost do it in a hurry. You literally leave her no space to reject you or dislike the line. As you’re physically leaving the place, walk by her, give her whatever compliment, and leave. If she likes you, she’ll follow you (most won’t, even if they like you). This is a low-risk line for guys to lose shyness.

4) Heeeeey, Maria!

This is where you walk up to a girl, as if though you mistook her for a friend. You walk up, say “Mariaaaaaaaaaaaa”, and when she responds, you go confused… Oh sorry, mistook you for a good friend. At this point, make a joke about your old friend, or your “bad eyes”. If she’s friendly, this chit-chat can continue. A few minutes later, simply admit… “Oh, btw, I don’t have a friend called Maria, I just needed an excuse to meet you , and it was worth it.”

5) How do you like it?

This is when a woman is within natural hearing distance of you, in any situation involving something to be judged. If she’s listing a book in the bookstore, ask her how she likes the book. If its a concert, ask her how she likes the band so far. In order for it to work best, it has to be said in a casual tone. Almost as if you’re asking one of your friends in your own group. Like its the most normal thing to ask her this. But then again, she has to be within natural hearing distance. Doesn’t exactly work if you have to walk 20 feet, and ask her this.

6) I just had to come over here and say that…

This is where you honestly say what you noticed about her. It has to be true, and it has to be genuine, and it must be something extremely unique. By unique, I don’t mean the line. By that, I mean what you noticed about her. It has to be those “once in a month” type of girls. Where something about her just stands out. It can be her style, how she walks, her hairdo or her demeanor. If there is something sincerely making you go “wow”, then walk up to her, and tell her just that. Make that your only goal. If the conversation continues from there, awesome, and if not… That’s cool too. Your main goal is to state what you noticed and were impressed by.

7) I don’t have some clever pick-up line, I just came here to meet you

If you say this with the right mindset and tone, it should make her chuckle and laugh. The idea is to make fun of the situations itself, this… “How the heck do I approach her, what do I say?” kind of a thing.

8 ) Hi, I’m Jack

This line works best for social events, parties and clubs and bars. For things like private parties, birthdays and company events it’s completely natural, and expected. For things like clubs and bars, you have to “fake it”, and by this I mean act “as if” it were someone’s birthday. Act as if the whole club is just one big birthday party, and everyone there is a friend of a friend. When you have that mindset, this line works awesomely well in clubs.

9) My friend is too shy to talk to you

This is if you do notice your friend hemming all night about talking to some girl, or it can be fake. If you like some girl, you can go up to her friend, and make a joke about how your friend can’t gather courage to talk to her. Most of the time they respond really well, and then your friend joins in and talks to her. Then, you go and you simply talk to your REAL interest, her friend… As if you’re making her company while your buddy and her friend are talking. Sneaky stuff!

10) Hi, I find you really attractive… And I want to meet you.

This one only works if you’re really smooth and charismatic. Some guys say you never use direct lines like this, because it makes women reject you. That’s complete bullshit. Its that if you’re creepy, this line lets her be direct in her rejection. If you’re indirect, and creepy, she has no immediate reason to reject you. So, if you really get your non-verbals right, and you become a charming, cool guy, you should make at least 99.9% of women smile when you say this. Even if they’re not interested.

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