Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
Girls: Do you fall for guys with cheesy, romantic pick up lines? example: you are the most important person in my life or you are purely amazing …. i like you because your beautiful and smart. You haveto admit, he could go a lot deeper… arent those just superficial lines?
My answer:
Well, depends on who are they coming from. If they are coming from a sober honest guy, they will get the attention. If they are coming for a guys who reeks of alcohol and is just looking for quick sex, that will also show.
When wanting to approach a woman, notice what you really like about here. That way, you don’t have to make up anything. Believe it or not, women have something like a special radar to see through all the lies and wannabe lines. It’s going to be way more effective if you just come over to her and say even something along those lines you suggested, but in a really sincere way.
Even if the line is considered cheesy, in that moment when you are slowly saying it to her, she is deeply involved in the moment and focused on nothing else but you…and she isn’t logically evaluating the pick up line.
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.
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Well I think you are so amazing, and beautiful.
Is your last name Gillete cause your the best a man can get.
honestly most times they do work (the sayings you just mentioned NOT stupid pickup lines).. but i am suspicious about it if a guy says stuff to me like that. i usually test him first before i believe him
Depends if he can say it with a lot of charm.
I think they’re all so cliched. My bf says some of those things to me and sometimes I really don’t feel special when he says it to me. I know he does mean it, but it gets old.
hiya, umm, not really, i don’t find them that great. they’re flattering but not much more than that.
I understand how you feel and I’ll explain why. Guys don’t realize that being nice is not perceived as a good thing to most women. When a guy is nice and you just recently met him, nice translates into manipulation. Dinners, gifts, cheesy lines… most of them don’t get how attraction works. Believe me, if you are half as pretty as your picture you need a guy that’s about adventure, anticipation, teasing, non-neediness, gives you your space, can have just as much fun without you present, a guy that’s a challenge, someone that you know likes you but you not sure if it can be yours.
Attraction 101: Never ask a women what she wants in a guy.
Why?
What women says she wants is not what she responds to.
Explanation:
Attraction is not a choice, it’s a response.
I completely agree with ViNi. Attraction is not a choice. Very well put, by the way. But I’d like to think that I can deceive most people given the chance (which I usually am). I know how arrogant and cocky and narcissistic that sounds, but hear me out. Not all girls (or guys for that matter…), regardless of what you’d like to believe or are told otherwise, are what you might be call a genius… Optimism is a good thing, but it clouds your judgement something fierce.
Regarding confidence in dating and romance…
Anyways, I just think that you are worth whatever you believe you’re worth. But don’t run so high up the mountain of self-confidence that no one else is willing to follow you. Remember, this mountain top only has room for one. And when you get to the top… if someone else is with you… one of you is going to fall… ALL the way down…
So in conclusion, I agree with ViNi’s closing statements… just not the parts pertaining to the penultimate section. If you wait for a guy who has all that, you’re just hanging on to a hopeless dream, imo. If guys were like that, the human race would’ve died out long ago. Think about it. Nobody’s perfect or anywhere near it. Compremise. Just be careful what you compremise about/on…