You know, if you’re not a psychopath, you know how incredibly difficult it feels to start a conversation with a woman… This is why some men invented cheesy pick up lines. It gives you an excuse for starting a conversation, and if she rejects you, hey, who cares, she rejected your line, not you…
But this is the wrong way to look at it!!! You CAN become good at approaching women with “conversation starters”… These are types of approaching where you say something genuine and cool… And the rejection rate with this is almost non-existent once you master them. This is unlike chessy pick up lines that guarantee getting blown off by a woman while she does the “disgust face of horror”.
Now, instead of going around, trying to make funny pick up lines work with women, you should think of cool, genuine, flattering and respectful ways to start talking to a woman. If you need a hint or some help to get you started. Here are 4 examples
1) Complimentary pick up line
Compliments still work in getting a conversation started. The key thing you need to remember is to make them about something OTHER than looks! Its not that women don’t like being complimented on looks, they do. Its just that when a stranger does, its usually a creepy stalker or maniac… And even if you aren’t one, she’ll immediately put you in that category. So just compliment her about something you genuinelly like about her… like the way she walks, the way she moves, her style or fashion… And do this with a body-language that says you’re moving right away! Just approach her, say”I saw you and just wanted to say”, and start walking away! Only if she says something back, do you stay and re-engage her. This makes it comfortable and easy for her as she knows you won’t cling around and stalk her.
2) Make a funny comment on the surroundings
These are best suited for a woman naturally happens to be in your hearing vicinity, kind of like if you’re both picking products from the same shelf… and then you crack something funny about one of the products “What’s the deal with product x, does anyone buy this stuff anymore hehe?” Remember, you have to not care how she responds in order for it to work. Just say it, and don’t wait for a response… If she responds – its ON!
3) Comment on the surroundings
Same as the previous one, except it doesn’t have to be about a funny thing. Just comment on the picture both of you are looking at
4) Just be normal
The great irony today is that… so many guys are trying to find gimmicks or “unique ways” to approach women, that just being normal makes you stand out, because no one does it anymore! Just walking up to a woman and saying something like “I saw you over here, and thought I’d come over and introduce myself”. Its that simple! Its respectful, sweet, nice and to the point, and it also gives her an easy out. If she’s taken, she can just have a courteous conversation with you, or thank you and say she’s in a hurry… but unless she’s a complete idiot, she’ll respond very well.
