You know, pick up lines are generally related to corny and cheesy guys bothering random girls on the street. But that’s just pick up lines being misused. It is possible to use pick up lines as conversation starters. In fact, you can find even the dumbest and corniest lines, and make them work. How? Well, it needs to be the right situation. If a woman is already looking to be approached by you, then these lines will make her laugh and see it as flirt. So first, let me explain how you get to that situation.
So you walk into a club right? Here’s what to do. Make sure you have a really fun group that you’re hanging out with. If all your guy friends are boring and just stand in place, get some new friends. If you have no hot female friends, get some! But in essence, you should be having fun, dancing, and looking like the most fun group in the place. If you do, what will soon happen is you will find girls starting to hover around you. When me and my friends go out, within 30 minutes we have what we call “the concentric circles effect”. There’s literally a circle of random girls all around us. They all decide to encircle and come dancing around us. If you look around the bar… Its all groups of guys, around other groups of guys. Around us however, we seem to attract all the girls in the club. I’m not telling you this to boast, but that you can do it too.
Now, you have girls who are dancing next to you, occasionally glancing over, maybe even bumping into you. They’re really close to you. This is where you lean in and say one of your funny lines. Again, it needs to be with the right mindset. You need to have the mindset of “This girl wants to talk to me so badly, I’ll give her a random joke to make her laugh”. Don’t say the line with a mindset of “Oh wow, she’s so hot, I need to make her like me, I’ll say this line to make her like me”. That will just repel her. How? She can’t read thoughts can she? No, but she can read body-language, and when your attitude and mindset is wrong, you also get the body-language of a needy loser.
Some example lines:
1. You know, if you want to meet me, you don’t have to just bump into me, say hi, I won’t bite 
2. Us pretty folk need to stick together, we can make other people here more jealous.
3. You’re a good dancer… But I’m better.
4. What do you think, 500 pounds? (while pointing at someone overweight)
5. Hey guys, you can join us, its ok.
Again, these are just examples. Don’t memorize them. Memorize the mindset and concept behind them. The mindset is that you’re a hot guy, and these girls are desperately trying to meet you. But you don’t actually mean it, you’re just saying it as a joke. You’re literally making fun of arrogance… While subtly communicating that you do in fact have high self-esteem and do not want her approval. You could care less.
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