Yes, pick up lines can work. And yes, you can make pick up lines all sweet and romantic… There’s a lot of women out there who would LOVE to be approached in a romantic manner. The problem? Most guys don’t get what romantic means.
When men try out being romantic, they either become nice guys, or they become sleazy. To be romantic does NOT mean to kiss up to her. That’s NOT what “romance” is. Its more doing in a subtle, smooth, suave way. Let me give you an EXAMPLE of a line that CAN BE romantic.
“Hey, I’ve seen you around campus, and I find you attractive, so I had to come over and introduce myself. Hi, I’m John”.
Now, in order to make this romantic, it also has to have the main factors in place, and they are:
1) Sincerity
This simply means you’re actually thinking the line as you’re saying it. Its not some line you just read somewhere and you’re just saying it to say it. It really is what you feel at that given moment.
2) Smoothness
This is the difference between whether you creep a woman out, and whether you sweep her off her feet. If you approach her all anxious or confused, you will creep her out, no matter what your line is. Most creepiness comes from having the wrong mindset, and the wrong mindset to have is ‘Cute girl, I must now say the right thing to make her sleep with me”. Unless you’re a psychopath or a really good actor, you’ll come across as creepy if you have that mindset. The much better mindset is “She looks cool, I just wanna make her smile and see what she’s like”. If this is your mindset, you WILL make her smile.
3) Positivity
You’d most likely get this handled automatically by having the right mindset… But… It bares saying separately as well. Whether the encounter passes as romantic will depend on your positivity as well. You want to have a huge, charming smile, and be in a fun mindset.
Some more examples:
Now again, some of these can be romantic, but it all depends on how you do them. Some can be corny or sleazy if done wrong, but if you apply what I teach you, then you can use these to make her smile.
1. “Hey, I just saw you walking by, and I think that you are absolutely beautiful!”
2. “I don’t have some clever pick-up line, I just came here to meet you.”
3. “Heeey, I like you, and I would like to get to know you.”
4. “Excuse me, I was looking at you, and I find you very attractive.”
5. “You have a nice energy about you…I would like to get to know you better.”
Again, I am repeating myself, but its important… Its not the line, its how you say it. Here’s a GUARANTEE i can make to you. If you say these lines right, you will get great reactions from 99.999% of women. And I don’t care how you look like, or what city or country you’re in. They’re tested everywhere by everyone. Its all in the mindset and attitude of your approach. Don’t get me wrong, you won’t get banged by 99% of girls just because you said these lines right. But, if you get your approaching right, most should respond POSITIVELY and with a smile.
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