Sometimes, some guys can pull of the whole “sweet talkin” suave thing. This is a list I compiled for you, if you consider yourself charming, or at least want to give it a try. These lines work best if you’re charming and able to pull them off. If you’re more serious, or straight-talking usually, then lines like this, might come off weird when you say them.
- If you spot a girl you eyed all night leaving the party -> “Don’t leave yet, we haven’t met yet!” – Said with a huge, charming grin
- If its a girl you’ve seen around the neighborhood, campus a few times -> “I’ve seen you many times, and I finally gathered up the courage to introduce myself. Hi, I’m Bob”
- I saw your smile from a block away, it just blew me away, so I decided to come over and meet the girl with the amazing smile
- Are you a dancer by any chance? Because you move with such elegance.
Now these are all examples, not lines to memorize. The point is to say something genuine that you really are feeling the moment you see her. If you don’t feel it, then it will most likely and almost assuredly backfire! So really, you want to say this stuff if:
a) You are genuine about it
b) You feel good about approaching her, and think you’ll make her day by doing it
c) You have the right mindset and outcome in mind
A really “great way” to screw up this stuff is to have backhanded intent. If your goal is “Oh wow, girl with hot butt, I must go there, give this line and make her have sex with me tonight”, it will fail! It will backfire! And no, its not that women hate sex. They love it just as much as guys do! The trouble is… Its the backhanded intent they hate. They want stuff to happen, because “it happened”. They don’t want you going in there with a pre-determined intent. When they feel you have a backhanded intent, before you’ve even said hi… That’s off-putting. They want that stuff to “happen” organically, and on its own through the meeting phase.
So, what’s the “right” mindset to have? The mindset you want to have is “She looks interesting, let’s go over there and make her day!
” You actually want to have that as your only outcome. If you genuinely do, you’ll do it in the right, sweet way and it will come across great!
