Sooo, you want some decent conversation starters for guys I hear? In fact, you won’t settle for just any random list of lines. No, you want the top 10 pick up lines in the world. And hey, I will oblige! The truth is, every one of these lines is the best line for one sort of a man. In fact, you can say this is a collection of best line for each of 10 different guys. It depends on what suits you and what your goals are. You’ll want to read the reasoning behind each line and see how it fits you.

I’ve seen you around, and I thought its time to introduce myself

This is a perfect line for someone you have seen around for a while. It can be a chick you’ve been exchanging glances with on campus. It could be the girl who ussually shops at the supermarket when you do. Whatever the location is, this line is perfect for someone you’ve been wanting to approach for some time. Its ideal if it’s a girl ith whom you’ve exchanged glances a few times. You have registered her, and you know she has registered you. In that case, you just walk up and kind of smoothly use that as a way to now “formalize” this “relationship”.

Unfortunately, I don’t have a clever pick up line. I’m just here to meet you

This line works best if this is your kind of humor. If you usually crack jokes based on “honest humor” like this around your friends, then this line is for you. In it, basically, you use the fact that you have nothing to say, as a way of saying something. If you’re thinking to yourself “oh boooy, she’s cute, what do I say”… this is perfect. Its honest, its sincere and if delivered in an honest, charming way will make her giggle.

I saw you, and I just had to come over here and say hi

This is a line that if done right makes girls melt like snow in the sun. The trick to this line is only using it when you really feel like this. When you see a girl and the thought in your head is “Omg, I really, really have to meet this girls, there’s just SOMETHING, about her” – this is the perfect line. Just focus on the fact that your intuition says that you have to meet this girl, and go ahead and do it. The trick to making this line work is focusing on the fact that your intuition, your gut feeling, told you that you just HAD TO talk to her.

Oh, is that the new iPhone? How do you like it?

No, obviously you don’t have to only approach girls with iPhones… That’s just an example. This line is basically about asking girls about something you genuinely care about. If she has some book you’ve always wanted to read, you ask her how she likes it. If its her holding some DVD you’ve seen, ask her what she thought about the ending and share your opinion.

Hey, I need advice from somebody cool, and you look cool

There’s a billion different variations on this theme, and they all work to open a conversation with a woman. For some reason, women love giving advice and opinions and it allows for a non-threatening conversation-starter. One of my favorite variations is to walk up to a woman who looks like somebody you’d ideally want to meet. Approach her and say something like this “Hey, I know you’re probably already taken, so don’t worry, I’m not gonna hit on you. I just want to ask you for some advice if that’s fine with you. What does someone like you look for in men? What advice would you give me?” That’s just one variation… Another is walking up in a more casual way and going “Yo, female opinion? I wanna cut my hair, good thing, bad thing?” You’ll have to find a variation that works for you and use that. Its about being on a topic you sincerely care about.

Hey, how’s it going. What’s up?

The trick to this approach is mastering the “Hello old friend” technique. This is a mental technique first promoted by Leil Lowndes. The secret is to talk to people as if though they’re old friends, not perfect strangers. Oddly enough, this actually gets them to respond just like old friends. If you walk up to a group of women as if they’re just some acquaintances from some hobby you used to have… They’ll respond AS IF they were acquaintances. Basically you just walk up and act as if you already know them. No, you’re not lying to them. I’m not saying “pretend to know them”. Just don’t bring in the “stranger weirdness” into it”. Just jump the stranger phase and go straight into warm rapport. “Hey guys, how’s it going”, “What’s on the plan for tonight?”, “Hey guys, having fun?”, “How’s the shopping going? Finding what you need?”  etc… etc..

So, how do you like the band? Think this movie is gonna be any good?

This is a continuation on the previous theme. It still has to be based on you having at least some level of “hello old friend” going on. But this line is more about something specific. Let’s say some girls at a concert have been hovering all night. Just turn to them and ask “So how you guys liking the band so far?”, or some chicks are leaving the movie theater at the same time as you, just turn to them and say “So what did ya guys think of the ending?”. This can pretty much be used in almost any situation that’s half social. Be it a gallery opening, some street festival, maybe a new-year’s celebration. Any event that’s public, yet semi-social.

 

Yooo, Jennifer! How ya been!?

This is my favorite technique to get approaching-newbies accustomed to favorable reactions by women. For some reason, if you do this line, every single woman ever… responds well. It doesn’t matter how good you’re at approaching, it doesn’t matter if you’re charming yet or not. You just run up to a girl and pretend she’s an old friend. “Heeeeeeeey, Jennifer! How’s it been!” When she responds with a smile that she’s not Jennifer, you go “Ooooh sorry, I mistook you for an old friend”. You can continue the conversation from here on and say “Oh sorry about that…. Anyway, I’m Josh” and continue as if any other normal pick up. Or, alternatively, if you’re still anxious approaching women, simply use the technique to get used to hot women responding well to you. In that case, only go in, do the pretend-recognizing of a friend, get the smile and great reaction, then apologize and leave. This gets you used to getting great responses from women when you approach.

You look interesting, and I like meeting interesting people

If this line sounds corny to you, don’t worry, its no the line for you. This line is really most appropriate when attached to the right kind of lifestyle. If you’re the kind of person who focuses on building a fun, interesting social life first, and only getting laid second – this is the perfect line for you. I actually do this, and so do a few of our friends. We never ever approach girls in order to “get them” or “pick them up”. We really think long-term. We approach everyone with the intent of building huge social circles. We then organize parties and introduce everyone to everyone. We basically make this life where we’re surrounded by so many hot women, that things happen “organically”. Now, when you live this life, its easy to use this line. You’re only approaching the woman with the intent of seeing if you like to potentially invite her to one of the parties or VIP facebook groups you organize.

Hey, I Just Had To Say, You Have A Really Unique Style

This is when you see a chick and something about her really stands out. Its where you see a woman walking down the street, and there’s just something about her style that just makes you go “wow, she’s… she’s different!”. No, I’m not talking about a chick dressed up as a stripper. Just a girl that makes you notice her with her unique style or her unique hat or whatever. Go up, and tell her that. This line works best when you have no further intention. Your only intention is to let her know you appreciated her unique style. If it goes further than that, then that’s awesome… But as you’re walking towards her, your only intent is just communicating having noticed her uniqueness.

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