Pick Up Lines And Dirty Text Messages have something in common… They can both be done horribly wrong. Its one of those things that if you do it right, it can bring you some good results. If you do it wrong, it can backfire terribly. So, here’s how to do pick up lines and dirty text messages right…
Pick Up Lines
1. It has to be sincere. Unless you’re really thinking it, you’ll come across as cheesy, creepy or sleazy saying it. So you want to say something you really feel.
2. It needs to involve something you are interested in her about, but not go too crass. Like if she has an amazing smile, compliment it, or if she just looks elegant, work that into your line. But it has to be something you really interested in her about.
3. Its positive, not self-deprecating or involving too much humor. A slight funny part is fine, but if you’re trying hard to make her smile, its just too try-hard.
Dirty Text Messages
1. Let her make the first move. I know this goes against everything you’ve learned about getting girls, but its also true. In nature and in humans, its the female that gives the first signal. So let her hint at something dirty FIRST. When she does, take her lead, and then send your first slightly dirty message.
2. Its obvious, but needs to be said… Don’t go too much in the dirty-messaging direction, too fast… Ramp it up slowly! Patience is key with girls.
3. If she stops replying all of a sudden, like she’s bantering back and forth with every message, and you keep increasing the “dirtiness”, that is REALLY cool, BUT… If all of a sudden, at one message, she stops texting back… STOP IT. Do not do what guys do, and think you need to text her back a ton of messages like “what’s happening” or even worse, sending an even dirtier message. If she stops replying, you went too far. Just call it a day, and let HER re-initiate.
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