Let me ask you something…
Do you know what the difference between a cute line and a cheesy line is? Yep, most people don’t know the difference either… Or even if they say Yes, they most often dont.
You see, the reason for this is that the major difference between whether a line ends up being cute, or being cheesy is the GUY who says. Let me give you a super-obvious example – Brad Pitt. Can you come up with a line that’s so cheesy and lame, that if Brad Pitt delivered it, girls would frown?
You can’t… Because he’s Brad Pitt. No matter what he says the girls will go “oh wow, that’s cute”… You see, when a girl likes you, even your farts and burps are funny and cute. Cute pick up lines will get a woman to smile every single time.
Now, don’t missunderstand, I’m not saying its all about physical looks, I was just giving Brad Pitt as an extreme example of how important who says it is… The truth is that cuteness is mostly about how you come across. If you say it in a cute way, it will be cute.
So how do you say lines in a cute way? How do you be cute?
Its simple… Its all about what your attention is. You see, your face alone has thousands of muscles and thousands of facial expressions. You don’t do these on purpose, nor do you read them conciously. When someone is upset, you can just tell they are. Well, it goes a lot deeper than that for women. If you’re a horny ass bastard who just wants to be cheesy, then you will have that facial expression and voice tone.
But you can’t control or learn to focus on those thousands of facial features directly. What you can do however is let them come across naturally. What I want you to try to do, is the following:
- See a girl you like
- Think about what it is you like about her
- Make it your goal to make her laugh and give her a good experience, and see what you appreciate about her.
If you have this on your mind, than you will naturally deliver the line in a cute way. You will have the right compassionate and well-meaning smile.
Here’s what not to do (how to be cheesy):
- See girl
- Decide you have to get laid
- Choose line with intent of making her like you, so that you get laid
You will come across as chessy with this mindset. In fact, if you say the exact same line, it will result in a frown instead of a smile… Anyway, I hope this helps!
