I have some exciting news for you today man. The exciting, shocking news is that you are human!
What the heck am I tripping on about? Well, if you’ve guilty, shameful or like something’s wrong for you for fearing women… Then this is a mistake. If you’ve ever had anxiety at the though of approaching a woman… Relax, it just means your human.
I know it sounds weird, but the first step to overcoming this is understanding that its ok. Feeling weird or guilty about it, will just make you even more anxious about it.So your very first step is to just relax about it, and then start learning about approaching…
The method I’m going to share with you today, is kind of fun. It involves actually taking corny, stupid pick up lines, and using them to approach women! The way you do this is simple… You actually make a joke out of guys who approach in corny ways! And at the same time, you explain to the woman that you’re just trying to learn how to approach. Here’s how this routine goes…
1) You spot a cute chick
2) You walk up to her, and you say something like “Ever seen anyone use this line? [the corny line]”
If you do it right, and its obvious you’re joking around… she will respond by laughing and saying no. Even if she thinks you are actually corny, it doesn’t matter, because step 3 solves this!
3) No matter how she responds… you apologize for taking her time, and explain you’re just trying to learn approaching. You have to do this genuinelly and sincerely, something like:
“Ya, I apologize for taking your time 
You just looked like an interesting person, so what I really wanted was your opinion… I was talking to some women on an online forum the other day, and the consensus is that guys no longer approach. For some reason, the women say… men don’t know how to approach. So I thought I’d ask some people in real life. What do you think about that? Again, I apologize if you’re in a hurry or I’m taking away your time”.
Even if she was negative in step 2, when you do step 3, she will flash a huge smile, say its ok and be positive. Unless she’s in a super-big hurry, she’ll actually stay around and chat with you about the subject! This is great, because you’ll actually get great, sincere advice on approaching.
Note: This routine is ONLY to get used to approaching and talking to women… While at the same time you get free advice from women. Your goal is NOT to pick these women up! I mean, what will often happen is some of these women will like you so much, that she’ll start flirting with you! Then it’s ok to try to pick her up… But that’s really just a bonus.
Your only goal is to just get used to approaching women and getting great reactions from them! And if you do step 3, apologize and ask for advice, right… You will get great reactions only about 99.9999% of the time
