Question:
What are some legit pick up lines that actually have worked (Guys and girls too please)? Ok so I’m smooth with the ladies and have no problem having conversations. However my one problem is that I alway get nervous walking up to one and starting a conversation out of the blue for some reason. So I’m wondering if there’s any ice breakers or pick up lines that have worked for you?
My answer:
Hey, welcome to the club of men that are generally good with women, but have the hardest time meeting them in the first place (with the exception when someone introduces them).
Now, the funny thing is when you ask which ones have ‘work for us.’
Let me tell you, it’s not about the pick up line itself, it’s how you use it and how you generally come across. You said that you are already smooth with the ladies, so you probably at least won’t come of as creepy. It’s very important to come across as confident and charming when you say the line.
I’ll only give you two lines. You can make variations of them yourself. You’ll see that it’s the approach, not the line.
Here is something for the clubs: “Hey, I don’t have any clever pick up line, I just came over here to meet you.”
Now here is something for an everyday situation: “Hello, I find you really attractive…and I want to meet you.”
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hey baby works like a charm
“Do you know how heavy a polar bear is?”
“Heavy enough to break the ice.” =P
pick up lines are not going to work, well i guess they have but i would suggest you think of the reason you want to talk to them and i’m guessing its to do with there look or image and drop them a compliment on that! because at least if they bail all you will have done is been nice and sincere! and if they don’t bail then they’ll think your a nice guy leaving you alot of room to work with! knock em dead tiger.
Please, do yourself a favor and don’t use silly pick-up lines. And for most of the high class women I’m assuming you want, don’t use a line that basically states to them what you want to do with them, like the answer to this question above. It’s like a burglar stating what he’s about to do to a victim’s house…..while doing it. “Hey, I thought I’d come over here and talk to you and get to know you more since you’re really attractive.” Well no shit, Mr. Obvious! Good for you. Sorry, that’s not gonna cut it with a high class woman, you don’t want to seem like an average joe. Not even a middle classy kinda woman will be able to respond to that in a way you’d like, since most of the time it’d soon become an awkward situation. Probably in rare instances would you attract a high class girl with this kinda pickup line. However, most women want a guy who’s creative with their lines. Be creative and play out pick up scenarios in your head before you leave the comfort of your own home into a world of competitive game. Don’t listen to your friends, unless they’re social butterflies, then by all means give them your full attention after asking them how they successfully pick up highly attractive women. Be cocky, yet funny. It’s okay to be cocky, just as long as you have some witty humor to make up for it. This shows women how confident you are around them, so much that you can relax and have some laughs. If you really want to improve your game and take it to the next level, I suggest grabbing a copy of Guy Gets Girl. Amazing step by step book that helps you attract, flirt, and even sleep with amazing and beautiful ladies that pass by you in your everyday life! There are also shared copies out there on the net. Good luck!