Yes, chatting up women can be hard… or so it seems. I too was one of the guys who couldn’t approach a woman to save his life. Guess what? Today I can approach any woman, anywhere, no matter how cute she is.
Do you want to get to where I am today? Well, before I tell you what to do, I’m going to tell you what NOT to do. Do not take some corny, stupid pick up lines online and just deliver it to some random woman. All that’s going to is just make you look cheesy. Some women even get insulted and think you’re mocking them by using a line like that.
So what do you do instead?
The odd thing is that using simple, no-frills, run of the mill lines works much, much better than dumb pick up lines. In fact, most of the stuff I’m about to share with you might even bore you to death! But women actually find this stuff smooth and romantic. Simple works best, remember that! Now… Here’s three lines to get you started…
1) The Sincere Approach
This is where you simply walk up to a woman and introduce yourself. It helps if you soften it up with some sort of an admission or excuse on why you’re approaching her. One of my favorite ones, is for a girl I have seen around many times… “Hey, I’ve seen you around campus, and I find you attractive, so I thought I’d come over and introduce myself. Hi, I’m Bob!”
2) The innocuous, innocent, friendly comment
This is where you use something in the situation or environment to start small-talking. It should involve zero romance or sexuality. In fact, it has to be so neutral and innocent, that you could say the same thing to a man, an old woman or just about anyone, in that same situation. Let me give you an example… You’re standing at the bus-stop, and you comment to the guy next to you… “Late as usual, huh?”. Guess what? It can be a super-hot-woman standing next to you as well. Do you do anything different? No, you start a conversation the same as if it were a man, woman, child or whatever… IT doesn’t matter. Your only goal is to get “small talking”. If it turns into something more, like a flirt, that’s a great bonus.
3) Ask a genuine question of curiosity
This is where you have some really burning question or confusion you have about women, dating or love. You literally walk up to a woman, and say “I’m terribly sorry to interrupt you… but… You look like a cool person who can help me out with this. I was talking to a friend earlier, and we were wondering why do women…” Keep it asexual and social… If she’s interested in something more, she will show the interest.
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