If you’re like most guys, you’ve either never gathered up the courage to approach a woman… OR if you have, it failed miserably. Maybe you got this weird pick up line from the net, said it to a woman, and she scowled at you? Well, no worries, I’m here to give you what actually works. You see… The secret is that women are all about smoothness! The more interesting, fun and spectacular a line looks on the internet, the more likely it is to be off-putting to a woman in real life. Want to know the kinds of lines that work in real life? I am going to warn you though, they’re spectacularly uninteresting!
For example, there’s a girl in the store you’ve been eyeing for a while. You’re not sure, but you think she’s been eye-ing you too. You don’t know what to say. You don’t know how to say it… Well, here’s a perfect smooth line that most women will be flattered by, especially in a situation like the one described…
“Hey, I’ve seen you around many times, and I have to admit I find you attractive. I thought I’d come over and take the chance to introduce myself”. The great thing about a smooth line like this is that you will always at least gain a new friend. Not one single sane woman will react badly or unfavorably to something like this! They will all respond with a smile and be flattered… Especially if you do this with a genuine, soft smile on your own face.
So… How do smooth lines work? How do you find or come up with more smooth pick up lines of your own? Well, its actually easy!
You just need to know the key factors of what makes a line smooth:
- Genuine sincerity
- No back-handed intent
- Positive, social attitude
- Relevant to situation
Now, I just figured out that the line I gave you first might mislead you. A smooth line doesn’t have to involve romance or you admitting you like her. That’s just one example of being sincere and relevant to the situation. The situation in that case was you eye-ing and seeing a girl around, and wanting to meet her! Its a girl you feel has noticed you around, and you’ve noticed HER around.
Another completely different example, that still follows these principles… Is you see two girls coming out of a bar right? You maybe noticed them earlier when you were all inside and dancing. So you see these girls, as they’re exiting and you go “Hey… How did you like the DJ tonight?” or “Hey, are you contiuing to [whatever club]?”… Its genuine and its related to the situation.
The trick to having it work though… Is to make sure you say as if they’re already friends/acquaintances of yours! Smoothness comes out of the mindset and attitude you have. If its with the attitude of “just being social”, it will come out all smooth and you will do great.
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